Support for LGBTQ Students
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Many students take their first steps in the coming out process in college. Loved ones often have questions about how to best navigate this process. Here are some suggestions:
Engage
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Explore
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During this initial time, it is often helpful for loved ones to explore community resources, such as PFLAG, which stands for Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays. This organization often holds weekly meetings to offer support for parents and loved ones who are also 麻豆传媒渃oming out麻豆传媒 as parents of a LGBTQ-identified child. Visit the , call their national number at (202) 467-8180, or email PFLAG for additional information.
Be Kind to Yourself
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Remember that the Counseling and Personal Development Center is available to support your student through this process.
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